Here are some very simple ideas to help teach and foster the fundamentals of good sportsmanship.  

• Cheer and encourage all the children, even the opponent or the other team. You will be surprised what difference it can make off-court when parents make an effort to applaud a good effort or good play no matter who makes it.

• Talk to the other parents. They are not the enemy; they are there for the children too.

• Be a parent, not a coach: resist the urge to critique. Children dread parents pointing out all their mistakes.  Sometimes just being there shows your children what being a good parent is all about.

• Leave the coaching to the coaches. This includes motivating, psyching your child for practice, after game critiquing, setting goals, requiring additional training, etc.

• Thank the officials - find a few moments to thank the officials for their hard work after a game, especially if your child loses. You will be rewarded with the pleasure of seeing a surprised smile in return.

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